This title is part of a series of short (2-5 minute) dramatic enactments of contemporary life in Lhasa in the early 2000s. In this episode, an older woman cautions a younger woman about the downsides of marriage. She says that men will tell their lover many nice things before marriage, but then will change dramatically for the worse after marriage. She thus counsels the younger woman to take her time and not rush into marriage. While not directly relevant here, the older woman is Dadrön's mother, who is herself suffering from a situation where her best friend has stolen her boyfriend away.